Sit With Me

Because time, presence,
and friendship matter

We are not carers.
We are not cleaners.
We are not a franchise.

We are your eyes, ears, and hearts when you cannot be there. And yes, we cost more.
Because they are worth more.

Sit With Me

Because time, presence,
and friendship matter

We are not carers.
We are not cleaners.
We are not a franchise.

We are your eyes, ears, and hearts,
when you cannot be there.
And yes, we cost more.
Because they are worth more.

In early 2025, around 1 in 4 adults in Great Britain reported feeling lonely “often, always, or some of the time.’’
Office for National Statistics

Who We Are

At Sit With Me, we offer warm and friendly companionship visits, whether it’s sharing tea and cake, going out for a gentle stroll, chatting in the garden, catching up on the phone, or simply being there.

We’re here to offer genuine connection and friendship for those who need it most.

How Sit With Me Works

Our companions offer visits that are fully focused, relaxed, and rooted in genuine care. We do not rush. We do not clock-watch. We are there to offer real presence and connection.

We offer companionship either in person or by phone call, so you can choose whichever feels most comfortable.

We provide a range of visit options, including flexible packages for those who’d like regular companionship.

If you would like to explore the different options available, just get in touch and we will help you find the right fit for you or your loved one.

We visit people of all ages, from young adults to older relatives, anyone who would benefit from regular company and friendship.

Who We Sit With

Sit With Me is for anyone who would benefit from regular company and heartfelt conversation including:

  • People who live alone or are bereaved
  • Those adjusting to life after losing a partner
  • People with anxiety who prefer to stay at home but still want connection
  • Individuals who want companionship as a respite alternative to going into a care home or clinical setting
  • Those who are new to an area and need help building confidence or social connection
  • People whose family don’t live close by
  • Isolated young adults or single parents who simply need a friendly face
  • Absolutely anyone feeling lonely or looking for companionship
  • Anyone who would feel more comfortable with companionship by phone call rather than in person

We are fully inclusive and welcome people from all walks of life — with warmth, respect, and zero judgment.

Where We Visit

In person: We offer companionship visits across Derbyshire. If you’re just outside Derbyshire and would prefer an in-person visit, please still get in touch — we may be able to help.

By phone: We also offer companionship by phone for anyone in the UK.

Trusted and Vetted

All of our companions are fully DBS checked and handpicked for their warmth, empathy, and reliability. You’re in safe hands with Sit With Me.

A Little Extra Help

We know that some people, especially those who are vulnerable, elderly, or living alone, can sometimes find themselves paying more than they should for their household services. With the cost of living mounting, we can see if you could pay less by reviewing bills such as energy, broadband and phone.

The aim is to bring the cost of bills down while making them clearer and easier to manage, with everything rolled into one simple monthly payment. If you would like us to look at this for you, just speak to Rebecca or Jamie. This can be done over the phone or in person.

Meet the Founders:
Rebecca & Jamie

Rebecca takes care of everything behind the scenes, from enquiries and bookings to keeping things running smoothly.

Jamie oversees our team of companions and often carries out visits herself.

Together, they believe in the power of time, presence, and making sure every person feels truly seen and valued.

Our Companions

We’re proud to work with a small, trusted group of companions who each bring their own warmth, experience, and natural ability to connect.

Bethany, Becky, Louise, and Amy come from different walks of life, but all share the same beautiful heart: they’re kind, down-to-earth women who care deeply about others.

Each companion has been handpicked not just for their personality, but for their maturity, reliability, and life experience, many come from backgrounds in community work, healthcare, or supportive roles.

“From your very first visit, it will feel like reconnecting with an old friend — though in truth,
you’ll be making a new one.”
Bev (weekly visits)

What Sets Sit With Me Apart

  • Remarkable companions. Our handpicked companions are the true heart of Sit With Me. They’re educated, well-travelled, emotionally intelligent women with rich life experience and a deep sense of empathy. They choose to be companions because they care, and because they believe in the power of time, presence, and connection. Every companion is carefully chosen for their warmth, maturity, and natural ability to treat every person like an old friend.
  • Bespoke packages. Whether you need weekly, fortnightly, or
  • No uniforms. We’re with you as a friend, out and about, it’s simply companions enjoying each other’s company.
  • Real time. No clock-watching, we’re there to be fully present.
  • The same companion. Wherever possible, we keep visits with the same companion so real friendships can grow.
  • Genuine connection. We talk, listen, share stories, and laugh — nothing is rushed.
  • Tailored visits. Every visit is shaped around the individual.
  • Bespoke packages. Whether you need weekly, fortnightly, or daily visits — or something in between — we’ll find the right fit for you or your loved one.

How Sit With Me Began

The idea for Sit With Me came from something simple but powerful — recognising how widespread loneliness has become, and how often it goes unseen.

In early 2025, around 1 in 4 adults in Great Britain reported feeling lonely “often, always, or some of the time.”

Having both experienced loneliness at points in their own lives, Jamie and Rebecca wanted to create something meaningful — a way to offer time, presence, and human connection to those who need it most.

FAQs

Do you wear uniforms?

No, we don’t want anyone to feel like we’re there doing a job. We’re there as a friend. Our companions dress in a smart casual way, just as you would if you were visiting someone you
care about.

Do you visit people of all ages?

Yes, absolutely. We visit people of all ages, not just older adults. Whether someone is living alone, recovering from illness, or simply wants company and conversation, we’re here to offer meaningful companionship and heartfelt time together.

Do you visit people with additional needs?

Yes, we’re happy to visit people with additional needs, as long as the visit is for companionship only. We’re not carers, so we don’t provide personal or medical care, but we’re calm, understanding, and always respectful of individual routines and communication styles.

Do you visit couples or more than one person at a time?

We can do, yes. If both people enjoy company and the time feels shared and meaningful, we’re more than happy to visit them together. Just let us know what you’re looking for when you get in touch.

Do you visit care homes or supported living settings?

Yes, as long as the visit is for companionship only and the setting allows external visitors.

We’re always happy to work alongside family and care teams.

What do your visits include?

Our visits are all about time and presence. That might mean chatting over a cuppa, going for a walk, playing cards, or just being together in the garden. Every visit is shaped around the person we’re with — with no clock watching, and no feeling of being rushed.

Will I see the same companion each time?

We do our best to ensure consistency wherever possible, especially for regular visits, many of our clients build lasting friendships with their companion.

Can I meet the companion beforehand?

We’ll always make sure you know who’s coming. If you’d like a brief call or introduction ahead of the first visit, just let us know.

Do you offer companionship by phone?

Yes — we understand that not everyone wants or needs an in-person visit.

We’re very happy to arrange regular phone calls, whether you’re local to Derbyshire or anywhere else in the UK.

Can I book for a relative or someone I care about?

Absolutely. Many of our visits are arranged by family members, often adult children who live further away or work long hours.

Sit With Me is ideal in those moments where time is short, but you still want your loved one to feel seen, valued, and never alone.

Are your companions DBS checked?

Yes, all our companions are fully DBS checked and handpicked for their warmth, maturity, and reliability. You’re in safe hands.

Do you clean, offer personal care, or other domestic services?

No. We’re companions, not carers or cleaners. We don’t provide personal care, household tasks, or medical support, our visits are purely about connection, company, and time well spent.

Testimonials

  • “I was hesitant at first because of the price, but you can’t put a value on peace of mind. Bethany is so warm and genuine with my mum. It doesn’t feel like a service — it’s a friendship.”
    Sarah, daughter of Margaret
    weekly visits
  • “Amy has been visiting my dad every week for the past few months, and honestly, it’s been lifechanging.
    He’s smiling again, chatting more — he even started baking with her last week! Worth every penny.”
    Claire, daughter of Brian
    weekly visits
  • “After we lost Dad, I worried constantly about Mum. I live in Spain, I’m an only child, and the guilt of not being there was crushing. We didn’t need a carer — we just needed someone who had time. Real time. Jamie was everything we hoped for and more. Mum looks forward to her visits like they’re the highlight of her week. She says Jamie is family now — and honestly, I agree. Jamie even keeps me updated, so if Mum’s a bit down, I know to call.”
    Andrew, son of Jean
    weekly visits, arranged from Spain
  • “My sister and I both work long hours and live too far from Mum to pop in as often as we’d like. Louise, Becky, and Amy have filled that gap with kindness, laughter, and time. They treat Mum like their own — and it shows.”
    Emma, daughter of Christine
    daily visits
  • “Becky has such a natural way with my uncle — he’s quite reserved, but she somehow draws him out without ever making it feel forced. And that’s exactly what he needed.”
    Martin, nephew of Graham
    fortnightly visits
  • “I had to go into the hospital for a couple of weeks and was so worried about my daughter, Dawn.
    She’s 45, lives at home, and while she manages well day to day, she struggles with anxiety and
    doesn’t cope well with change.

    Respite care in a home would have been too much for her — and a lot more expensive. I contacted Rebecca at Sit With Me and she couldn’t have been more accommodating. She arranged daily visits to Dawn at home straight away, and it gave me such peace of mind knowing someone kind and thoughtful was checking in.

    Dawn really took to the lovely companions. I wouldn’t hesitate to call on them again.”
    Susan, mum of Dawn
    daily visits
  • “When I first moved to Bakewell with my little boy, I didn’t know a soul. I’m in my 30s and a single mum, and I was too nervous to turn up to local groups on my own. I reached out to Sit With Me, and they matched me with Jamie — also in her 30s — and honestly, she was exactly what I needed.

    She came along with me to a couple of community groups, helped me break the ice, and made me feel like I wasn’t doing it all alone. A year later, I’ve made lovely local friends and settled in really well — but I still book Jamie once a month and we go for a long walk and a proper catchup. I wouldn’t be where I am without her.”
    Lucy
    monthly visits
  • “After my husband died, the days became very quiet. Some days I wouldn’t speak to anyone at all. A friend mentioned Sit With Me, and I’ll admit I wasn’t sure at first — I didn’t want it to feel formal or awkward. But from the very first visit, I felt at ease. Louise came round for a cuppa and a chat, and now I honestly look forward to seeing her.

    Yes, it’s expensive — but these ladies are on another level. They’re educated, worldly, and can hold a proper conversation. They’re worth their weight in gold. Don’t question it, just do it.”
    Eileen
    fortnightly visits

Companionship Enquiry Form

We’re based in Derbyshire and currently offer visits across the county and surrounding areas. If you’re nearby but unsure, still feel free to get in touch, we may be able to help.

Once we receive your enquiry, Rebecca or Jamie will be in touch for a friendly chat — no pressure, just a chance to learn more about what you’re looking for and how we might be able to help.

This is the first step in arranging a visit for you or someone you care about.

Please complete the following form: